Stop sitting on your hands.
You complain of too much work/boredom/whatever.
Go get to work.

Make a cake;
Learn piano;
Paint your nails;
Write a song;
a poem;

Go do something.

It's all very well to say 'poor guy', but do nothing to help him.

You might not be able to do much alone, but you alone can be a step towards something bigger and better.